Mary Beekman is a four-year-old ghost who resides in The Beekman Mansion, and considers Brent and Josh her “imaginary friends.” Follow Mary Beekman’s Diary each week to learn what it’s like to be a young child in early 19th century America

I could see them from my window this spring morning.  I have been searching each morning and today is the first fine day I saw them! VIOLETS!! The sun must have been  in just the proper place in the sky . The purple flowers were sprinkled across the grass.  The dark green of their heart shaped leaves was louder than the pale green blades of grass surrounding them.  Josh said his mother has some violets that are spotted with white and purple.  Brent and I had not seen those. When I am outside, I shall have to look for those.

We are going to visit Grandmere tomorrow.  It is her birthday.  She loves violets and I am going to be able to pick her many bunches to take to her. I will pick as many as my hand can hold.  Mother said she will help me tie a piece of long grass around them.  Then I am going to select the largest leaves and carefully surround the violets with an outside wreath of the heart shaped leaves.  Mother and I will  fasten both the inside bunch of violets and the outer circle of leaves with a piece of ribbon.  I will make the very best bow I can.  I would like to make a bouquet for Grandmere’s parlour and one for her bedroom.  The bouquet that will be the best is the one I will make for Grandmere to pin on her dress.

Mother is taking her a cake.  We are going to decorate the cake with candied violets.  Mother is going to show me how.  Grandmere says she loves the scent of violets even though it does not last for long.  She says the violet means humility and perhaps it does not wish  to show off its scent for too long a time. Grandmere has violet scented powder and she sprinkles some on her handkerchiefs to hold under her nose when we walk through the barnyard.  Father teases her that perhaps he should sprinkle the barn with her powder!

To Candy Violets Whole   –  The Lady’ Assistant for Regulating and Supplying her Table – Charlotte Mason   1777

Take some double violets, and pick off the green stalks; boil some sugar til it blows very strong, put in the violets and let them boil till the sugar blows again, then rub the sugar against the sides of the pan with a spoon till it is white, stir all together till the sugar leaves them, and then sift and dry them.

by Mary Beekman

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Hello Lynne. It is pleasing to me that you enjoy the

entries in the diary that Mother encourages me to write

each day. Beekman has been my home since 1802 and

it still my home. Josh and Brent tell folks that I am their

little friend who walks on her tiptoes and laughs with them.

However, Mother and Father know that they are MY imaginary friends. I am glad you live near our house. It is very pleasant there. We have chickens and gardens and I hope you will too.

Lynne Smith

I find your articles on Mary Beekman very intriguing and interesting. Do you really have the ghost of Mary? I wish you the best on your new lifestyle @ the Beekman Farm, and looking forward to you new series starting next month. I do not live far from you, the next town over – Richfield Springs, we have a 1903 camp we converted into a year round home, but my husband and my dreams are really of owning our own farm some day. I have always wanted to raise chickens and have a large flower/veg. garden. Best to both of you.